Whilst watching and listening to veterans talk on Armistice Day this year I was struck by the lack of ego from these men and women and the respect they still afforded to their colleagues and comrades. They just got on with what they had to do and did so by being respectful and showing respect to each other.
How respectful are we today to others? Past generations, and for me growing up, were taught to respect our elders and also people in authority such as the police or teachers. I acknowledge that in some cases that respect was abused by those in authority but generally we listened and accepted words of advice or learnt from others’ experiences.
Are we too self-centred and inward looking to respect and to learn from others in today’s world? Can we accept being given advice and words of wisdom? Does every generation feel it is better than the previous one? Do we just see “old” people as no longer having a value in society – what are their stories, what have been their skills and attributes to the community?
If you knew your grandparents, looking back what did you learn or gain from them? Did you show them respect when you were younger?
One of the Reiki precepts is “just for today I will be humble” which can be interpreted as showing gratitude for what and who you have in your life. To adhere to your values and create healthy boundaries whilst respecting others theirs. To respect another person, does that have to be earned or can we generally respect others’ views, opinions, actions?
Respect is one of the most powerful foundations for healthy relationships, strong communities, and personal growth. It goes beyond simple politeness—it’s a way of showing others that their feelings, perspectives, and experiences matter. When people feel respected, they are more open, confident, and willing to communicate honestly. This creates a positive cycle in which trust grows and connections deepen
As with most personal growth we need to start with respecting ourselves. Respect our own values, worth, opinions, life experiences and see them as not better or worse than others. Self-respect strengthens resilience and helps us navigate challenges with clarity and confidence.
Ultimately, respect enriches our lives. It reminds us that every person—regardless of background or belief—deserves dignity. By practicing respect daily, we contribute to a kinder, more understanding world where people feel valued and empowered to be their best selves.